Tuesday 12 May 2015

THE MESSAGE THERE-IN



Biblical genealogies are areas of the scripture which most believers (I especially) often overlook. I often think that no insight or real lessons other family histories/trees can be extracted. Upon listening to Matthew 1 (from the bible experience audio), I realized that I couldn’t be farther from the truth.
I have read through it a couple of times, or should I rather say that I have taken a couple of cursory looks through that chapter in time past; and honestly, it simply bored me out, and I quite often drift off (mentally) while reading through such scriptures. On listening to it being read out, new insights just kept flooding in, and now I realize that I should have taken more than just a cursory look into scriptures such as this.
Romans 10:17 says: “so then Faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God”                         NIV puts it this way: “Consequently, Faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ”
The scripture above looks pretty straight forward at first glance, but I feel it’s much deeper than it looks.
What is ‘the message’ being referred to above?
I feel the Holyspirit ministers’ messages into our hearts and soul; but how do we truly hear what he speaks?
When we read or hear (listen to) the word (about) of Christ – that is the scripture – then the message comes loud and clear to us. Christianity is Faith-based and the scripture says as much in Hebrews 11:6;
“But without Faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that e is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.”
Pleasing God is our mandate as Christians (Matthew 22:36-37). If we can’t please him, then we have failed. Faith is not an option, but a must to all believers.
For us to build our faith, we must “hear the message” from the Holyspirit. To hear this message, the channel/medium is “the word about Christ”.
Now coming to the scripture under consideration (Matthew 1); in Verse 5 – 6 reveals something quite fascinating. You will notice that this genealogy (as was customary in biblical time) is replete with male members of the bloodline, but two exceptions pop out in Verse 5; Rechab – the prostitute of Jericho who saved the Israeli spies, and Ruth – who steadfastly and loyally stuck to her mother-in-law, Naomi, even after the death of her husband. This gives us a great lesson – God never forgets the good done. Diligence in seeking the lord never goes unrewarded (Hebrews 11:6).
Take note of verse 6 as well; it doesn’t mention Bathsheba (Solomon’s mother), she was rather referred to as – the wife of Urias, because it was referring to the sin committed! Two lessons can be picked from here; firstly, though God is a merciful and loving father, consequences for our sins and inactions still abound. God is a God of justice, and he certainly didn’t allow the sin against Urias go unpunished. God is very much able to turn what seems like a dead certain disaster into a jaw-dropping testimony. A union initially enmeshed in sin later resulted in an offspring who now was in the bloodline of Jesus!
Verse 19 shows us a lesson on being JUST.
God doesn’t just allow anything happen for the sake of it happening. The angel of the Lord could very well have informed Joseph about the conception of the virgin Mary rather than allowing him find out himself. God didn’t permit it to happen that way, because I feel he had a lesson in store that he wanted to dispense to us. Joseph I must say would have been justified to feel betrayed and to take due actions (by human standard). Joseph didn’t succumb to bitterness or discard his moral values. He still had the intention of treating Mary in the right way!
As Christians, we shouldn’t treat people badly because they treat us that way. We must learn to live above the world/earthly code, which dictates that we give what we get. Treat everyone right! Do good to all men when opportune and not just the ones who treat you right.  


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Tuesday 5 May 2015

PRUDENCE: A Key attribute in a God-given Wife


This brief note is inspired from RCCG’s Sunday school manual (2014-2015 edition), from the topic of 26TH April 2015 – Knowing God’s will in marriage.
Proverbs 19:14 – “House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD”
QUESTION: going by the passage above, would i be right if I came to the conclusion that possessing prudence (as an attribute) is a true test of a Godly woman when seeking out a wife?

WHAT IS PRUDENCE?
Making use of my phones dictionary as a source, I pulled out these definitions;
1.     Discretion in practical affairs
2.     Knowing how to avoid embarrassment or distress; discretion; discreetness; circumspection.

From the passage(Proverbs 19:14), we got one word; from the single word, we have now gotten a collection of words, that might help us gain clarity and better understanding of what to look out for in a desired wife as a Christian man.

Note Prior to this moment, I have always thought that prudence only applied to financial matters!

Now let’s look up another definition of the word “prudence” as gotten from dictionary.com;
·        Prudence as a Noun: the quality or fact of being prudent or wise in practical affairs as by providing for the future.

The above definition is so very rich! It says “wisdom in practical affairs”. This implies that she must be wise in handling daily occurrences that we often encounter (not just in words, but in deeds).

It further goes on to say “as by providing for the future.” That means she must be quite adept at planning. She should be one that is able to take pre-emptive measures in case of any eventuality in the future.

Dissecting the word “Prudence”
To do this, we go back to our start up definition and treat the other words we came across.

PRUDENCE: knowing how to avoid embarrassment or distress; discretion; discreetness; circumspection.
·        Being Circumspect:  Heedful of potential consequences. This implies that she evaluates before acting or making decisions. She makes sure to weigh the pros and cons!
·        Discreetness: Subtly skillful in handling of a situation; delicacy; diplomacy; finesse. The foregoing implies that she must be able to quell any brewing storm or conflict. She mustn’t be a person easily prone to brashness or easily angered. Essentially, we are looking at a PACIFIST here. A DOVISH fellow I must add. She must therefore have the ability to rein in her emotions rather than being controlled by them.
·        Discretion: The trait of judging wisely or objectively. Again, this points to the woman’s emotional stability. In order to be objective, one needs to be able to put emotions to one side, and properly weigh the issues at hand without being sentimental or otherwise swayed my emotional triggers.

Can this single word be the ultimate key in seeking out a Godly wife? That is the million dollar question.


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